Our d6 is going to a counsellor roughly fortnightly. I don't know what they talk about but she likes going - says she likes playing with the toys. I've talked briefly with the counsellor and she has told me that d knows what's going on and picks on my tension/stress when h is around. Wish I could change that but he is unpredictable in what he is going to say or do and I'm on tenterhooks waiting to see if he'll give me the advance warning that I'm after for or not. You might want to look into it. I feel better that I'm not just expecting her to cruise along and cope. This way she gets to talk to someone that is there just for her and d6 doesn't have to feel that she has to hide anything (I hope).
At the moment, it's Thursday night and h will have d6 this w/e. I messaged him yesterday to ask him what time he will pick up d6 and whether we can talk about the parenting plan I gave him on Sunday. He said this afternoon when he called that he hasn't had a chance to think about it. *sigh* I don't know if I'll have d6 Saturday morning or if he wants to pick her up early. I feel like I can't plan anything because if I do he'll leap on it and say I'm making things difficult for him. Damned if I plan for myself (and get accused of being selfish) and resentful if I don't. Sorry...little hijack.
