Yeah, I meant maybe he wants you to be there for him without him being faithful to you.
I thought "His Needs, Her Needs" was a good book. My ex-wife didn't like it. I don't think she finished reading it.
Quality time is hard to provide to someone who's never around, but you can make the best of the time you do have with him. Show that you're listening. Use body language, like not crossing your arms across you chest, do make and keep eye contact, that sort of thing.
Physical touch LL isn't just sex. You're the best judge of whether your relationship with him now would allow you to give some casual, non sexual touch. Take his hand and lead him to see something your daughter made at school, something like that.
Remember the part in DR about experiment and see what works. If there are things that aren't working, drop them and try something else.
Keep taking care of yourself, too, gym or no gym, because this is not an easy task. You need to be at your best for yourself and your daughter.
Thanks,
Joe
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