Not with this MO. --> He suckered me in with the damn puppy dog mixed in with wolf crap. I was just being dumb and horny and resentful of my M. ask x about OM. so sad. it courses thru me like a river, for both you and her. Not.
I had a feeling you would respond with a comment about your ex. I have a feeling I am similar to her in some ways, many of them not good. That's why I said I'd eat you alive. You'd be throwing chairs against walls all over again. I'd want you to be puppy dog and receptive to petting me and telling me I'm pretty. You'd be drained and withdraw affection. I'd look elsewhere. R on the skids again. And that comes back around to my point about working on your puppy dog. Almost all women love that. Trust me....from afar of course.
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When are you going to step up and fix what he was resentful about?
And what exactly do you suggest I do? He is happier than I've ever seen him the past 3 days. We are happier. Why can't you be a little happy for me here and stop raining on my parade. You're a pisser. But I stil luv ya.
I'd want you to be puppy dog and receptive to petting me and telling me I'm pretty.
The St. Bernard looks down pets and validates "prettiness". The puppy dog cuddles, begs and might look up and validate you for being a "beautiful" goddess-like creature. Of course, your Zoo might vary.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
The St. Bernard looks down pets and validates "prettiness". The puppy dog cuddles, begs and might look up and validate you for being a "beautiful" goddess-like creature. Of course, your Zoo might vary.
I see. Well, the problem I have with using St. Bernard is it seems too fatherly to me. I already have a daddy thank you. That's probably why I like puppy terminology better. This is also why I tend to be attracted to younger men. A younger guy who plays me puppy is cute and someone I want to corrupt. Thus, my Jake fantasy. An older man who plays me puppy just seems... well...like a dirty old man. I like older men but not in the puppy role. An older man can look at me with "I want to F you eyes" and that's hot. But don't tell me how sweet I am and buy me gifts. ewwww That's why the older men I am attracted to, like maybe Robert De Niro, I perceive as all wolf, loved him in Raging Bull. Even Good Fellas. Yum.
Darnit, gotta get to work.
Oh, H gave me a sexual menu for tonight that I can pick and choose from. Not only is he being assertive, but quite creative as well.
I never took it as name calling. sometimes a square is another way to say very predictable and a open/honest/predictable person.
It is like "What you see is what you get."
Once again, I never even tought about Corri name calling.
Phew. Good. I just wanted to make sure.
As far as WYSIWYG goes... and I'm just asking as a talking point, not jabbing at you... BB is WYSIWYG. Or at least she seems pretty determined to convince you of that...
How does that make you feel? (That's rhetorical... I've read enough of your threads to know how you feel about it).
When I was first learning code... I sometimes used WYSIWYG programs to test myself or learn something new (programs that let me look under the hood at the code). It was a wonderful... security blanket for me...
Until I started getting REALLY GOOD.
And then if I wanted to use a WYSIWYG, just for speed sake... I actually learned how to fool the program, or use work arounds for what it would NOT do. That was kind of cool for awhile.
Then... I got really good. A graduate student of mine and I used to race one another to see who could build solid pages faster... me... just typing code myself, or him, using the flashiest of WYSIWYG programs ever. He'd beat me in raw time... but like I said, the pages had to be solid, which meant they had to work reliably in all the different browsers and platforms...
There's nothing like doing the work right the first time. He knew code, but was so unfamiliar with it due to WYSIWYG usage and monsterous code bloat... most kids who left my tutelage were steadfast hand coders, sworn never again to return to the dark side of letting a program do the thinking for you...
Oh... yeah... my point. Do you think... that sometimes you might use the WYSIWYG description of yourself to escape your own fears and risks? And if that might be the case... is that fair to BB? Not that life is fair, but... you so much seem to want to have a vibrant sex life with your wife... but your actions don't seem to match your words... so are you really WYSIWYG?
That's why I said I'd eat you alive. You'd be throwing chairs against walls all over again. I'd want you to be puppy dog and receptive to petting me and telling me I'm pretty. You'd be drained and withdraw affection. I'd look elsewhere. R on the skids again. And that comes back around to my point about working on your puppy dog. Almost all women love that. Trust me....from afar of course.
Very interesting points. I wonder who among us views themselves as WYSIWYG and who does not. I know I'm definately not WYSIWYG. However, I think H believes that he is. I will tell you that he isn't. In fact, I think he does a great deal of false advertising perhaps without even knowing it. He presents a What you see is what you get exterior and actively blocks people from knowing the interior. I can even sometimes guess as to what is going on down below his presentation and he will often agree, "Hhmmm, yes that seems right" but will never embellish any statements pertaining to his inner workings. Is there truth in our advertising????
No need to be stunned. And I'm not sure what you even mean by "kidding". I've said this again and again. I like a wolf/puppy combo. I think most women do. BF is too wolf. He needs to finesse the puppy side to avoid having to throw chairs when his significant other decides (not sursprisingly) that she doesn't want to be in a R with a man who is too wolf. And by too wolf, I mean that he comes across as disinterested or emotionally cut off from her. His ex seemed to feel that way and she found OM. All I'm saying is I'm not surprised she did. I don't mean to offend you BF, I hope it's not coming across that way. I want you to be happy. I think you could be happier in your R if you could adjust a little to the woman you are with. I doubt you will agree with that Corri and that's ok. But I think in Any R/M, you need to make some adjustments if you want it to work. You and BF seem pretty...severe...in your approach and I think it ends up biting you in the azz in the end. Just my opinion.
Umm the sex starved amongst us will want to know your choice.
Thanks Scott. I'm happy too.
As for tonight, I think I will surprise him with a blowjob to start. But I don't think I will complete that task. I'll stop just before he is about to go crazy and then make him go down on me, again just until I am about to go crazy, and then I think I'll straddle on top of him and just sort of grind to an O with him inside me. We may even be able to cum at the same time. It's rare but do-able.
