ms ladybug, thanks for the encouraging words. I think it only takes about 2-3 months for D to go through in AZ. Not very long, especially when it's very simple. But yeah, I'm giving up "trying" for now. I need to do something different. Trying seems to be pushing it in the wrong direction. I will back off and give her lots of space and let her think a bit. Who knows what'll happen then. Maybe God is trying to tell me to quit trying so hard... Sometimes it's hard to figure out where he's leading me. Ah well....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.