FLTC, I think it is very unfortunate that your W and many others spouses, including my STBXW, point at us as the root cause of their unhappiness. And thus it is very easy for them to point fingers and justify a D to be rid of us. They still do not realize that they are solely responsible for their own happiness or unhappiness..... It also sounds like all your W did was take from you and not much of a giver.... Maybe she's very needy and will always keep draining whoever she is with....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
