H TM'd me this morning asking me to pick him up from the airport. My first thought was no, but I am VERY curious to catch up and in particular find out what is going on w/step son. (really bad situation over there and H had plans to do a confrontation when he got there.) PLUS, I want him to do a dump run with all my moving stuff and also hook up my gas for the torch, so I thought I could make a deal with him.

Then this evening we had this TM conversation:
(First a few different tm's with him clarifying the flight number and arrival time. (when he asked in the morning, it was going to be 11:30pm arrival.)
Then
H: Looks like 1am now delayed on runway
me: U owe me big
H: Yeah yeah what your not happy to see me
Me:OH- is *that* why you asked *me* to pick you up-because you're happy to see me?
H:Sure i was thinking about u and i missed u i know im driving u crazy right
Me: R u shtting me?
H: how do u mean?
Me: LOL I don't know. I'll talk to u when u r here since I am sure they want cell phones off soon- still 1am?
H: Yeah im being sneaky now berry berry sneaky
(that was one of our "jokes" that we would use.)

I put what he said in bold because WTF?????

When he asks how the move is going- am I honest? or do I just play up how cute the place is and how excited I am? He is driving me crazy. We shouldn't be getting a divorce.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing