I know there are people following my sitch but I just need to hear from someone occasionally to confirm I'm on the right path. To be honest I need to hear something everyday, but occasionally will do. For example I was gonna start pushing for R talks, but just a little comment like have you just made helps me realign my focus and now I'll back off.(please explain consolidation time for me). Also I guess this is another reason I snooped over xmas, I wasn't sure I was going in the right direction and not much BB feedback. Plus W was being moody so I thought her comment of OM being done was untrue. I mean her cell phone is locked, I know I can't get into it but I tried. I think a combination of boredom and daring had gotton to me.
Last night when W got into bed she made some small talk and actually lay facing me. But for me, asking for a hug and being turned down at New Year I wasn't going to suggest anything but I honestly thought she was going hug me. Alas it didn't happen.
The positive thing is she's stopped with "the Art of Clinging to the End of the Mattress without falling off the matrimonial bed".
So anyone following my sitch it's ok to throw in your 2 pennies worth occasionally.
Thanks
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing