I'm sorry for your pain...I understand your frustration and wish I had answers to your questions for you...I'm scared too...I'm wondering the same things about my H...waiting is hard. Breathe deep, say your prayers, have hope and faith, don't give up. Be strong and don't let him see you upset...I know how hard it is, but you can do it...others have done it before us and succeeded. Hold on to the hope that you can get through this too.

BA

Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally