I was disappointed in W for failing to ask about my own uncle, who passed away early this morning.
I am so sorry.
Nocode, I totally agree. Just because we want our marriages to work, this does not make us punching bags, a depository for their spew, anger and guilt.
I used to react with hurt when H would be mean to me, now I walk away (and he knows why), or I demand respect. Its worked.
You threw her off. First you busted her on the bear thing, and then you refused to get sucked into the "R Talk Vacuum". Good job.
Hurt, disappointment, betrayal. Those emotions are closer to me than anger. I told H 2 weeks ago how he and his choices have greatly let me down and disappointed me.
