Do you know about the five love languages? Do you know which is his? Maybe he wants things both ways, and maybe the prospect of actually moving on to divorce and losing you frightens him. If you can show him that you're strong and capable without him, while using his LL to let him know it's ok to give up the OW, maybe you can get out of here with your marriage intact.
Thanks,
Joe
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