Hey Lizzy, Good for you for cleaning the garage and taking a chance with the gas on the lawn mower. I've had a couple things I've had to deal with that didn't go exactly as planned and it was H who looked bad, not me. I got the A effort and he got the F for neglecting his responsibilities!
My H doesn't EVER say anything good to me when I do these things for myself. Not when I put up the Christmas lights myself or got my tree or anything. Yesterday I had taken all the decorations off the tree and it was standing there ready to be taken out. H asked if I wanted him to take it out and I said sure. Of course, he left without doing it. So today I did it myself. You think he said anything about it? Nope. It's like he can't even force himself to pay me a compliment or acknowledge when I've done something.
Well Lizzy...good for you! Doesn't it feel great when you do these things? It is so empowering and it inspires you to do more. Good for you with the movie too! The flirting seems encouraging. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
