Originally Posted By: lizzy
Glad to hear you are having dinner w/ a friend. Doesn't seem like something you do much. I should talk! I have a book club luncheon w/ friends tomorrow and I know I'm looking forward to it. At a time like this nothing beats being w/ friends. I think the time away from W will do both of you good.


I had an awesome time tonight - Didn't get home until a few moments ago. We drank a bottle of wine between us, so I'm still pretty buzzed!! I had a really good discussion with my friend, so that helped a lot - We used to work together, so she knows me really well, plus she knows W too. She thinks she's heading down the MLC route, based upon her 'need for independence', but who knows. She also said that W sounds like she's as much as a train wreck as all of the friends W has too. It was interesting - I didn't talk in absolute positives or negatives about W tonight. I talked about the bad things she is doing, but also the positive aspects. Being out tonight was a total 180 for me. Probably not done that since before D was born - Almost 2 years ago. Actually, last time I had dinner with this particular friend was when W was 6-7mo pregnant. Don't recall doing much with other people since then. Guess I need more friends...

I didn't talk to W at all tonight, and I'm not going to. Decided that I need to just let her do her own thing for a while. Maybe she'll start to miss me again or something.

Going to head to bed and start re-reading DR. Things have been good, but I've lost the 'edge' of DBing. Need to brush up.