I took D to school this morning instead of H. He picked her up and brought her home. He said that he stayed home from work today because he was nauseous all day. I asked him if he thought it was the flu and he said no. Now I've already spoken on my thread about H's...huh...loose bowels throughout this whole ordeal, especially when he was hiding the A. But I've seen evidence of it since...including yesterday when he was here to see the kids. ANYWAY...he was quiet the whole time he was here tonight and doing a lot of staring off into space. Seemed like something was on his mind.
He left around 7 or so.
I put D to bed around 8 and she woke up an hour later crying her head off because she had just thrown up in her bed. Then she threw up the whole way to the bathroom. (Sorry if this is gross post people...). Poor thing. She felt ok right away and is back to bed now after sheet changes and lot of towels!(hopefully for good...).
I called H to ask him if he threw up today when he felt nauseous and he said no. I asked again if he thought it was the flu and he said no. I asked if he thought it was something he ate and he said no. He then seemed a little irritated with my questions and just said...it has nothing to do with whatever made D throw up.
Is it just me...or is this odd? Is there something physically wrong with him he's not telling me about? Or is his concience getting the better of him again and his body is taking it out on him? My gut tells me it's the latter...especially with how quiet he seemed tonight. I've said it before, but someone who is at peace with their decision would not be physically feeling this way. He's lost so much weight and just looks withdrawn.
Anyway...Supermom managed to get through the first Puke-fest of 2008! Thank goodness the baby co-operated while I cleaned everything up. Now I just have the laundry to deal with. Hopefully D just had the one to get of her system and she'll get a good night's sleep and feel better in the morning. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out