No jellyfish here! Though I grew up in the country so I prefer to swim in a pool (so I can see where I am swimming and there ain't no sharks). I do like the beach but the salt water gets to my eyes way quick. I wore goggles on my (very short) ocean water swim last sunday with our water polo coach adn that was very good. I'm just not keen going swimming in the ocean on my own.
h has said that because we are separated, it makes it ok for him to have another relationship. Plus I 'obviously don't want him' so he will 'take what he can get, where he can get it'. these were phrases from a month-plus ago, but as far as I am concerned, they still stand because he is still seeing her.
He says facing the parenting plan is difficult for him to deal with (emotionally). Fair enough but I need to get some firm things put in place. He dances around it all EVERY single time.
