Ooops. I guess the S date (29/01/2007) was for separation, not for son.
You want physical changes, then get out like WCW suggested and get some sun and air. It'll make exercising go that much more smoothly. I took my daily walk today in temps that were around 0° C, with winds around 35-40 kph so I could let the sunlight reach my retinas. It wasn't the most pleasant time I've had outdoors, but it did brighten my afternoon to get some natural light and a bit of exercise. Plus, shivering is extra exercise. But seriously, it doesn't cost membership fees to walk, or run, if you're into running.
Changing the locks is a step toward "more separate" lives, but that doesn't mean it's moving toward divorce. My own take is that having a sexual relationship with a person other than your spouse is moving toward divorce. You need to know for yourself what is and isn't acceptable. Standing for your marriage is one thing. Being walked on is something else. Only you know when it's past the standing stage.
Hey, you could go swimming. Are there jellyfish at the beaches down there? There were none here yesterday.
Thanks,
Joe
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But seriously, it doesn't cost membership fees to walk, or run, if you're into running.