\:D I had to chuckle when H stopped by the house tonight. H pulled in the drive, so no car then backed out. A few seconds later my cell rings and H asks where I am. I said I'm home and H asked where the car was. I said it is in the garage, I kicked butt today and moved some stuff around. I also said you might want to check and make sure I have your kayak in there ok. H checked it out then check on the snowblower and put in the correct gas. When he came in he didn't really say much about the garage. I think I asked if the kayak was ok and he said yes. I told him when I went out this morning and cleaned 8in of snow off my car I decided I wasn't doing that all winter. I bit my tongue and didn't say like I had to all last winter. H didn't really respond other than a nod.

H didn't really come in and sit down much. He stood in the kitchen and ate some leftovers and we chatted a little. Gave hime some meds I picked up for him today. Also gave him a calendar for the month. Discussed him spending time w/ Ds tomorrow and the weekend. I am going to see a movie tomorrow that I have been wanting to see. It will be my first time going alone. Anyway H and I did a little joking/flirting while he was here. Seems to be a little of that each day lately. I am encouraged by it but I know I need to keep the expectations low.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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