I continue to be extremely sad (coupled with angry) about the diitegration of my family over "unhappiness".
Well, my H announced he wanted a divorce because I'm a lousy housekeeper. Why couldn't he just hire a cleaning service instead of getting a girlfriend??? I don't need to be married to someone like that!!! However, I, too, am sad and angry....plus scared (been married 30 years!).
I have a question for you just so I can understand your feelings better(not to upset you further): Do you really want to be married to the wife you describe to us? Do you ever talk to your children about how they would feel if you got divorced? Would they want you to be in an unfullfilling relationship just to keep the family together??? I, too, have a D17. That is challenging enough without dealing with divorce issues.
So, what can WE do to make the most of an ugly situation??? Can you look forward to your leave and enjoy every minute with your children???
Why couldn't he just hire a cleaning service instead of getting a girlfriend??? I don't need to be married to someone like that!!! However, I, too, am sad and angry....plus scared (been married 30 years!). 