Why I am the Way I Am

[MJontheMend]

I think SG and I came to the conclusion Fear/Awe is better then disdain though. \:\/ at least for the sex drive.

I'll agree with that. Though I must admit that I find it confusing that a woman could simultaneously disdain a man's puppy dog and fear his wolf. Anyways, I see HD as far more monkey than puppy dog.

So true. confidant slinking is Hot and sexy and I would be seriously remiss not to let you know, I know, your presenting for my benefit, and I like it-- and what I want to do with you. Explicitly. even In public, maybe in whispers, maybe shouted across the room. LOL. Desire has to be shown to be felt.

Exactly. I almost always wait until a guy's desire shows before I attempt to feel it.

what you described was the men bragging and seeking approval for their accomplishments
That behavior killed your sex drive. I understand. The equivalent behavior by women...doesnt kill my sex drive, but it doesnt get rewarded. I wanted to point it out.

I agree. I'm just a bit more easy-going than you. For instance, sometimes a guy will catch himself and apologize for bragging too much and I will say something like "That's okay. I like it when a guy brags on himself. Saves me the trouble." Maybe it's just that I much prefer bragging to self-deprecation for obvious reasons.

several women have mentioned here how when they are just being themself, wearing a tshirt and sweats, not doing anything special, they get appreciative remarks from their H's. Men get the same thing when they are just being men. If your not, you can look at yourself and make sure you are not being needy/insecure, but after that its lack of appreciation and the OP is just cruel.
Dont give your gifts to the unappreciative. I know, you know, its hard when your brimming over with positiveness.

Good advice.