WOW that he approached you like that and with those kind of questions. He wouldn't ask I don't believe if it didn't bother him. Also I know it's my take on things but I see it as very positive that 1. he said sex would mean something to him. 2. That he divulged that he isn't seeing OW right now.
Maybe it would be a great time to talk to him about how you feel. That you love him and find him sexy. That you want so badly to make love to him and to be married to him. But you do have this hurt with what he has done. I once told my husband I loved him and I really thought we could make this work. But he had to understand that from time to time the hurt he caused might rear it's ugly head. He would have to be patient with that. But honestly I think communication is the key. I don't see it as pursuing to tell the men you married what you are feeling in your heart. It almost seems like he is feeling things out a bit.
I am sorry to hear about your daughter. Do you think it could maybe be all the antibiotics and medicines she has been on? This happened to my daughter. Her doctor put her on this natural medication to put the good bacteria back into the stomach. When an antibiotic is taken it can rob the stomach of it's good bacteria. She was having lots and lots of stomach trouble.
