"Are you full of anger and resentment?"

Oooweee WCW, that would have to be the understatement of 2007.

Now that it's 2008, something needs to be done about it. It takes far too much energy to stay angry and I'm not good at it anyway. I just don't want to be doormatty again, difficult to balance the attitude of assertive vs aggressive.

Joe, I've got a little girl (6 yo). Her b'day is in June so thankfully I've got some time.

h got peeved that I gave him a parenting plan. He seems to feel it's equivalent to divorce papers. I just don't get it. I need the structure and the planning ahead. I can't continue on this semi flexible arrangement that doesn't feel like it considers my needs at all. Picking d up at lunch time on Saturday and returning her at lunchtime Sunday isn't my idea of quality time and doesn't give me much time out. I'm not a party animal and finances are tight. I can't afford to go out to GAL a lot but I'm sick of being at home. Most of my real life friends are either away on holidays, at work, or flat out with their own kids.

I was sooo close to changing the locks a couple of weeks ago but then h bought back the internet cables and seems to not be as angry anymore. I'm the one who's acting angry.

Ho Hill,

Hiya Shamu (is that a whale?). We saw dolphins on Boxing Day. WAaay cool.

The physical changes I need to go through involve losing 6 kg (to be 73kg - I'm 5ft8 or 5ft9) and getting back to a size 12 (Australian sizing - don't know the Yank equivalent). Like I posted on your thread, I got to a different gym this morning but will need to consistently do it for a week to feel better.


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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