On the drive home from work today, it occurred to me that I am responding from a position of weakness. Being concerned with her actions flies right in the face of the advice I give to all the noobs here. I need to be strong and confident. My happiness is contingent upon neither her love for me nor her relationship with her boyfriend. I am a successful, attractive, desirable man.

As I said before, the line forms to the left... Queue up peacefully, now... No shoving...


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9