Thank you all for your input. Yes I am starting to focus on what I should be aware of in case something happens. Part of the problem I face is finding the information out without appearing to be throwing in the towel. WCW, send all the reading you have, it will be seriously considered. The answer to your question is yes. But the kids are starting to ask W about it. \:\/

Right now I'm just trying to KLA while W is piddling around with this R of ours. It's funny how W's response to me can change from one minute to the next, even when I'm not even at the house. (Just calling home from work). Why do W's have to make life so difficult? \:\) (Just messing with you guys).

The other day I fell asleep on the couch, then woke up later with a sore hip from the couch frame. This might be poor DBing, but I got a smile on my face. It was nice to know that something was making "an impression" on my W in regards to her sleeping arrangements. Don't think PS is going to buy a new one any time soon, unless there is a permanent change in W's "position".

OK, tell me if I'm wrong here. I found "us" doing something the other day that indicates to me that there is some reconnecting happening. You know how it is when you have a good friend and there will be a group discussion going on, something will be said and all you have to do is look at each other and there will be no words said, but each of you know what the other one is saying. Well W and I have been having a few of those. I think in a way, we are both starting to feel comfortable enough around each other to let that happen. Most of this has to do with if W will let her guard down.

I want to thank my DB friends here for helping me make it through this last year, I could not have done it without you. My hope is that I have been as much of a positive influence on you as you have been on me. It nice feeling a part of a team that is trying to accomplish something so important in so many peoples lives.