I prefer honorable and deliberate. Some negative people would say control freak. If I were smart, I wouldnt be divorced. I would chose to do what works over feeling entitled to Relational reciprocity.
I would eat you alive.
Not with this MO. --> He suckered me in with the damn puppy dog mixed in with wolf crap. I was just being dumb and horny and resentful of my M. ask x about OM. so sad. it courses thru me like a river, for both you and her. Not. There is very little smacking of the lips by me or her, after I tear the house down to rubble and burn everything to a fine ash. and that is My MO if she slips her responsibilities. Save the excuses for you actions for you daddy. So was your H (being dumb and resentful of his M) when he left. He still showed remorse for his actions.
When are you going to step up and fix what he was resentful about?