OK. First take a deep breath. I know that stabbed in the gut feeling you have.

It's time for you to go dark. Anger directed towards her is only going to reinforce the decision she's made. You want to yell? Come here and yell at me.

It's time for her to put on her big-girl panties and live with her decisions. She can NO LONGER have her cake and eat it to.

You are NOT available for the rest of this week.
Go dark! Do it now!

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."