Well Mike, apparently she's having an A, does that surprise you? I think you knew it all along. I know I did when my W was telling me "I don't love you anymore". So what do you do now? OK, you can blow and carry on like a madman, it's certainly understandable, or you can decide to win back your W. Now you know for sure what you are dealing with, and no, it's not a pretty thing. The first thing you do is start to respect, yes respect, what your W is telling you, she wants you out of her face. That means backing off like everyone is telling you to do, it means GAL'ing and getting a life together for yourself, make yourself the man she will want to be with. Apparently, the man servant bit just isn't doing it for her (trust me on this because I was you!). If something isn't working, then stop doing it and try something else. I don't mean you should be vindictive but just change course a bit here. I know it's Hell, I've been there. So, have your tears, beat the hell out of a pillow, and then get back to work, you've got a M to win back! Don't screw things up by having an emotional meltdown and saying things you can't take back, if you don't want the M then no problem, you won't want it a month down the road either, so what's the rush to act here. Give yourself time to think about what you want before taking any action that could sink the ship.
