Good work on the standing up for your self, but be careful of your responses after that.
I didn't say much after that other than to thank him for helping and to see how he was feeling. I normally keep my cool, so even i was worried how that would come out. Glad i did it either way, really really glad he heard what i was saying and didn't take it as just nagging/arguing.
Acutally the online stuff was whenever. I was operating as if we were getting a divorce. I've always pretty much thought and been told that once someone brings up divorce, there is no going back. niave, huh... I was mostly doing it at home. He thought i was actually out effing a guy from my work during that time. Maybe in my car or something... who knows Those accusations started over a year prior to EA. But I know see how he could have gotten there. Unless he had some magical epiphany today, i can guarantee whatever he was thinking was much more than just a passing thought.
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But he needs to see that you can be upset with him, there are going to be fights every once in a while, but that you will return to his loving arms and not old problems.
I think that was one of the best things about last night. He pretty much ignored me all NYE, but yesterday we acutally sat on the couch, watched some tv and had sex. big imporvement over the last few days...
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The interactions are sounding like a lot more positives then negatives though, that seems to be a switch.
yep yep... no expectations that it will continue, but they are steps in the right direction.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
Those accusations started over a year prior to EA. But I know see how he could have gotten there. Unless he had some magical epiphany today, i can guarantee whatever he was thinking was much more than just a passing thought. 
