Deciding if you want to be married to the MLCer is yet another rock in your shoe.
I mean why should you? You have grown, you're a better person right? You have dealt with all this crap, and looking back on your marriage it really doesn't seem like it was worth it.
Not for everything the MLCer put us through...
So do you have good memories? Do you actually love your H? Did you?
What happened to that, and those? Has your anger and indignation removed those?
Has your anger turned into a sword rather than a shield?
Give yourself some time before you commit to a course of action.
You may feel that it has been a long time, or that your firm with how you feel today, but allow yourself some time.
Monumental decisions should made with the careful understanding that this will affect you for a long time.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
