The first week of January must be a busy time for lawyers. I am going in tomorrow to sign off on my divorce and temp custody restraining order documents which will get filed in the court the same day. There is the slight chance this will be the wake up call for my WAW, but I doubt it. Even if she does, I think I am becoming a WAH and want to move on with my life without her.
hi John....thanks for your sympathy...I feel sorry for you too.
its amazing the minds our was are in.
I won't be leaving my home unless a judge says I will. I can't imagine telling my kids their mom had a judge make me leave. this is her issue and if she wants to leave the marriage..she can leave the house.
also..I won't accept less than 50~50 with my kids.
as far as db'ing..you can see in her email that she notices everything. she just hasn't budged one iota since this began. she also still hasn't given me a legit reason to leave. they are always changing but the main ones are I am not the one for her and we are too different. she can't give any specific examples. I guess that's even more difficult to bear.
have a db appt and seeing a lawyer tomorrow. not sure what dbing will do for me now.
I like your attitude! Same as mine. I am definitely staying with the house and most likely will get 50~50 with my kids. If she pushes it, she will most likely lose and possibly risk not getting what I am fairly proposing to her.
My W left the house already and that is one big strike against her. Stay with the house. You may lose, but dont give in as once you leave the house it lessens your leaverage for shared custody.
Guys, I appreciate your resolve. In my case, I need to get out. I don't think there will be a custody battle. I just feel that this is my last chance (going dark etc.) to salvage this. If not, my WAW can not afford to live in the house, therefore, it is going up for sale. I will wait till next week to contact a lawyer...alos, DB coaching is also in the cards.
