Good work on the standing up for your self, but be careful of your responses after that.
You stood up for yourself, so he backed away and did some butt kissing as he should. Then he probably got a little insecure and scared you would run back to your old ways. Then when you didn't call on your lunch, wasn't that one of the times you were doing things online or something, he probably thought the worse or it at least crossed his mind.
But he needs to see that you can be upset with him, there are going to be fights every once in a while, but that you will return to his loving arms and not old problems.
The interactions are sounding like a lot more positives then negatives though, that seems to be a switch.
