What a fun two weeks this has been. All I can say is YAAA for 08! Cause 07 sucked big time and it can't get worse then that. So only way is up. I officially hate the holidays now.
So I have been shopping for the health insurance for my S and I. I have to admit I have been lax about it, but so has W. I don’t have my S’s ssn, and needed it to purchase. I asked for this a while ago. Well sure enough he is sick again, and she is mad, cause she calls saying did you get it yet, well did you have his ssn. I mean I know I’m not saying “I told you so.” But I know she thinks that when she calls all attitude in place, and I calmly say, sure I would have but you haven’t…
I ask how she is doing and get a goodbye. Well her sister who is pushing for the D, is in town and they are all staying up MIL’s, who wants the D. So I’m sure W is getting the pulled in every direction thing again.
So I decided to test the water a little and sent the following text. “Dude what gives, we can’t talk anymore?” I get a phone call a few minutes later, she is pretty angry, asking what do I want, she is all stressed out and busy. Well I start validating and say I just like to hear sometimes how you’re doing. She tells me all of her crap and all the sudden is happy butterfly girl because I listened. I’m telling ya, when it comes to the communication aspects of things, the Men are from…is like a magic wand.
As for moving forward with the D, I’m going to sit for a while longer. I have some other issues to focus on myself for now. She has said she won’t sign now, I think she is holding on to her safety net. Me and my attorney don’t want to push it on her, he is afraid our too good to be true settlement will get crushed. He wants me to wait until she asks for it. I’ll wait until I decide what I’m doing, but right now I’m not even deciding or thinking. I’m just going to watch the movie from the side.
I’m really doing the focus on me, started some house projects over the new years. Have the whole upstairs how I want it now. Time to tackle the downstairs and garage. Have to keep up on the bike. Doing some outside the M studying and reading which is nice for a change.
It will be interesting to see what happens now that the pressure and the magic from the holidays are gone by. However, here comes Valentines, and Birthdays.
