Your thread locked. We know he's spending the night with the OW.
Deepest hugs and prayers to you tonight.
He's a f@cking bastard. That's all. A huge f#cking bastard.
I want to kick his ass. No....correction...I want to put a crowbar in his head.
That's why you are moving along with the divorce, because he's an immoral, philandering, piece of sh*t excuse for a man.
And I want to kick the elders a$$es in your church for allowing your husband to remain in leadership and not taking the steps to spiritually kick him in the butt.
God is not to mocked. The sh#t will the fan eventually. If not now, then without fail on the day of judgment. You see I'm not a politically correct pansy. My God is merciful and gracious, but..he also executes justice...and in the words of Johnny Cash, he's taking names. If there's any love left for your husband, pray for his soul. He's in deep weeds. Pray for those church leaders who have to answer to God for the way they abandoned you and your daughter. Every tear in your daughter's eyes about this breakup will be held against them.
And Olive, find a better church. One with real men in it. Men who know how to treat a lady.
Theo... awww.. bless your heart. That meant so much to me when I read it...
H called on New Years day crying and telling me what a horrible night he had, that he was so lonely for me at midnight and wanted so badly to call me. I know it doesn't mean that anything has changed but I wonder if ow noticed that H was having such a miserable time with her and was longing to be with his wife..
LO, your H is not even out of the house yet, only "first time out publicly" with OW and he is already like that. He cannot live without you. He just does not know it yet. Keep on detaching and GAL. Expect him to continue to flip flop. It is what you want to do, to take him back or not (but not just yet as you know as well as us that he will be back and forth)
