Dom R, exactly what I have been thinking. But friends and relatives say I need to stick by my daughter. They say either get rid of the husband or put the marriage on hold for two years until she is 18. The thing is both my other kids left at 14 to go live with their father so they could go to another school. So it is difficult to think of letting her go, but I did it with the other two, I let them make their choice.