It really IS when you let go that they come running back, isn't it? Now, I don't know if I want him.
Yes. As to if you want him. I would wait to decide that when he is him. My H has been so strange during his affair. He is still with OW, but I see small bits of his old self. I have decided to wait and see if he... 1. ends the affair. 2. learns from it. 3. wants to work on a better marriage.
Then I will decide if I still love him. Right now he is not very lovable.
