A suggestion my C made to me (I do all the bills and H never knew what was available), you could give him a spread sheet showing what came in and what went out. I started doing this twice a month. I would list our income and then show what bills were paid and how much was paid.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him