It has nearly been 3 months and there has been no positive change. H told me he now wants a d. I asked him to think about it again and he said he would. Evverytime he sees me he says answer is still "no" not coming back but will think about it. He says he is too busy to think now!!! I have no idea where he is living. He says with a guy he works with but I can hear he is lying. Caught him out the other night, he said he was with some guy and he was actually with OW. I think he is staying with her. She is a successful musician, something he has been trying to be. He says he has finally found someone just like him that he can be best friends with. He said our marriage was not bad but he does not want to do it anymore. I am trying to do a 180 but messed up when caught him out with OW and told him to make choice NOw of course he said no... The only contact we have is when he visits our daughter. He did not send christmas wishes or a present for d, no new year message and he does not contact me. How can a 180 work if he is ignoring me completely?
