be careful with your kids. I would never refer to one as a trump card...make sure you do whatever you can to make things easy on THEM. not for your wife's sake, but because its the right thing to do for your kids. sounds like you are going to have to be especially careful of the middle one.
Sally - What I meant was that my only chance of saving the marriage is the unlikely event that she considers the kids. She is focusing exclusively on herself, at the expense of the kids.
The boys are old enough to know the truth... that she alone wants the divorce.
Originally Posted By: SallyM
take care of yourself. I can't remember, are you in any kind of therapy?
My only therapy is here on DB. I know, I should see a professional. But, at this point, I see my money as better spent on an attorney.
