well, one time I did... it was funny for both of us (i think!?!)
h kept saying "what else, and what else, ok, what else..."
boy, that felt good....
it didn't change anything, but it was kind of funny... for me, anyway...
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yesterday, D4 was being a little brat and H was getting mad beyond what I call self control, cussing and threatening... that sort of stuff... H asked me what I would do and I told him...
i feel like i left H feeling inadequate. i told him that I am not perfect, and that I do the same thing he did sometimes, i just told him what works for me and what specifically he did that mad ME mad... the threats (being abused as a kid it really scares me even though i know the threats are "empty')
anyway, if anyone has any advice in ways to voice discontent... or just ideas to experiment with, i'd love to hear them.
