I was not talking to this guy at that point Ok. You said he contacted you in the thread. and then it probably went back and forth about how you couldnt shouldnt talk to him.... *eyeroll* but I actually like being wrong about this stuff...so feel free to correct me.
And frankly, the only reason we have gotten to this point in our M is specifically because of my actions,
Actually not to be nit picky or anything, but just so the men see reality, I would say you are where you are because OM -for whatever reason- implemented a boundary. those were not your actions. those were your and then your H reactions. Things might be quite differant if soldier boy hadnt blown you off.
I know your getting properly Fu@ked now, and I am actually momentarily pleased with soldier boy, for how things have turned out. Do you now, respect your H? Youve juiced him, you havent fixed the problem. However this may be how you two decide to do this. I honestly dont have a problem with that either, if it works for both of you.
So if you are trying to make me feel guilty or "put me in my place" by dredging up old threads
I wasnt talking to you. I was talking to Stig. Remorse for you actions is not mine to make you do, and unlike OP, I dont allow you to hold me responsible for your feelings. Remember?
The goofball. p.s. If I had chosen to have an EA with you, it would not been because I respected you or thought you were special. It would have been because it was easy and I was needy. or my resentment overcame my respect for M, and OM W's, or some combination thereof.
