GG - not sure i would take notes, but if you have a small tape recorder you can put in your purse (i have one for conferences cause i'm the same way, get overwhelmed with lots of info sometimes) maybe you could take notes later. If you are comfortable taking note, go ahead. this is a big step, no reason you shouldn't know exactly what's going on. Good for you thinking ahead like that!!
dragon fly - Those comments are not constructive or beneficial to anyone. you should read more on this board. You'll see lots and lots of men here fighting for their R after their W left. They've got the kids and work and are still trying to work on their M. There are plenty of a$$hole guys out there, but there are just as many women doing the same dispicable things. I would definately recommend reading through this BB and seeing the amazing number of men here working hard....
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