I'm very happy for you. Yeah, i guess you could call it a 180 if you like ;\)

and I dont think that "fast" neccessarily means "wrong", if both people are really committed to giving it their full effort. I think that you just have to know what things might go "wrong" is beforehand, so you can avoid them.
The mods deleted a post I made about a book for some reason. Dont know why, they didnt tell me. but I'll try again. If they delete this one, would be nice to know why, specifically, since references to other books seem to get left alone.
I only got a brief look through it, but it seems like "getting back together" is a book that might be helpful for you. It is specifically targeted towards people who are separated; some pitfalls to avoid; planning when to reconcile (and when NOT to reconcile)... and also some tips on making sure that things will be different when and if you come back together.

It has a section specifically on the dangers of premature reconciliation, so that alone may be helpful to both of you.
good luck.

Last edited by Dom R; 01/02/08 09:42 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle