I went to a marriage counselr briefly before the marriage when we were figthing constantly and she was so stressed and just nasty to me. I went about 3 times and she came 1. it made a *small* difference for a week or so. But then it was time for the wedding and honeymoon and we never went back. Shes brought it up a few times on her druken tirades how much that I forced her to go and she hates counselors and we dont need any help and how could I have been so underhanded to set it all up without even asking her and blah blah... I think I might bring it up tonight and see. This isnt normal, its not normal for us to be like this to each other and somethign has to change. Like I told her this weekend. Things used to be so great between us and somewhere we took a wrong turn. We both want to be happy in this relationship. There is only 3 things we can do. 1. Continue on this path, which is getting us no-where. 2. Get some help with a counselor or SOMEONE. or 3. Call it quits.
