Well, in my defense BF, I was not talking to this guy at that point and was Really trying to improve the attraction/respect for H. It just wasn't happening. And yes, Nop did say I was a keeper. I remember that specifically because I was surprised he said it and it meant a lot to me. My H thinks I'm a keeper too, which of course means more than anyone else's opinion. And frankly, the only reason we have gotten to this point in our M is specifically because of my actions, whether right or wrong. So if you are trying to make me feel guilty or "put me in my place" by dredging up old threads, ok...fine...I can take it...I welcome it. Because I respect you BF. I may not agree with you at times, but I know you mean well. You're a goofball, but a likable goofball.
