I only read your first post....and it reminded me of thought I have. My H has always used the internet for online dating to chat on when we are not getting along. And put he is divorced or single. And yeah men can do what they want. We cater to it without choice. Kids make it that much clearer. My husband is actually trying to get an annulment instead of a divorce so he can go to seminary and become a pastor. CRAZY. He wants to just erase his life and all the horrible things he has done and go somewhere with a new identity and a new start no strings attached. And men can do that. WE women are left to grow from the choices we make, we can not seem to just erase them. We are left to deal with the heartache, the broken pieces that we will inevetibaly carry with us to the next relationship, we are left to take care of the kids and be there for them no matter what.....we don't leave....we don't start over....we keep going.
