I agree with you he should not have crossed those boundries. I didnt type it very clearly. As far as getting that connection I do know this you have to do things together. Maybe think of little things that you can also do with the Kids. Go for a walk while pulling them in a wagon or somthing like that.
I do know its tough, this is the toughest thing I have ever had to face in my life. I feel for you and everyone here.
Quote: this evening was no better than today, ended with H peeling rubber, honking the horn, screaming F*&^!!!. I don't give a cent what y'all say... H acting like that is HIS FAULT... you don't see me doing that.... I can try to understand, but how the heck does a W connect to that?
That stuff is hard to deal with. I think this is what unconditional love is all about. We see them do stupid things and still love them. I know that you already know this but its a rollercoaster ups downs the whole gambit. You just need to have patience.
I hope I didn't offend you with my last post because that was not intended.