Cemar, you should try posting in the NNMNG forums for better advice concerning your nice guy traits. Not that the advice here isn't good, but you'll be able to gather more information from those that have read the book and done the exercises.
One thing that has helped me tremendously is to work on myself only. If you try to improve yourself strictly for the reason to make her maybe desire you, you're doing something they call "attachment to the outcome".
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One of the most NONPRODUCTIVE things my H used to do was depict me in a frigid/nonsexy light. Boy, if I was having issues showing my sexuality, telling me how unhappy he was with our sex life was the most detrimental thing in the world.
I'm curious - what did you say to him when he said this?
Me: 52 Her: 48 2D 26 & 16 M: 25 years (together 30) EA/discovered by accident Valentines day 2016 Admitted SOME physical but no IC. We know that's a lie. Status - tryin to R
