ann, the time limit thing was in your post to me, thanks. I just hope that he won't get angry and think I'm avoiding the subject, since he began the discussion Sunday night, and I haven't really spoken to him since. I just don't know what I could say to him right now. I know you all say this is a time to vaildate his feelings, I just don't know how to answer him if he asks me what I want or anything for that matter. Anyway, not gonna dwell, can't do anything til we meet anyway. Playing scenarios in my head won't work/help either. Just have to remember to think before I speak/react. Thanks for putting up with my whining lately, sorry.
M 29/H32 M 7yrs/1 dog Bomb 10/18 M in apt 11/13/ H in the house 1st now