no your not overreacting.. At this point she has really no business coming to your apartment and going through things, its really invasion of your privacy.. you know darn well if you did that to her she would have a heart attack.

I would calmly say to her "please do not go into my home without me being there" and leave it at that.

I know your upset and "done" with her, I can tell by your post. Maybe this is the push you needed to go dark and to remain detached from her. Im sorry your in that place now.

The kids will be upset, this is a given, just show them as much love as possible and just let them know that they will always be loved. (I know you aready do that).

This age is so tender.. My boys are 2 and 5 and especially my 5 year old, everything effects him (he's very sensative), he knows exactly was is going on when there trouble.

Hang in there... Thinking of you..


tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.