Its a shame that the in laws are buying into this, but she just maybe be exagerating a bit?? I don't know just guessing that maybe what's going on. How does OM wife know all that?? Is the OM willing to give his W this information, that sounds weird to me.
Let her blood run cold for a bit, and think she needs a jump start in the a$$ personally. I totally understand your need to get angry, so get angry you have every right to be.. and im probably the wrong person to be telling this to because it it was me and I was in your position, you make damn well sure after it was over that people would know what really happend.
Im glad your seeing an attorney, I know you didn't want to file first, but at this point, I don't know how you feel about trying to fix your M.. I would just worry and you and the kids at this point.
I am sorry it had to come to this, she is very mis-guided and is very selfish person to destroy two families.
(((((hugs and strength for you)))))
tal
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