Thanks ann, Lan, Atlas - lots of wisdom here for me to process. Yes family thinks that D is so common these days and I should just accept it and move on like so many others instead of being in "denial". They thing W can't be trusted after this and their focus is more on the kids. So far I've got a couple of couple friends who are on the same wavelength as me and I'll lean heavily on them for the emotional and DBing part. My brother has been a strong support for the legal and financial part. I'll have to brace myself for a very long, lonely war and I hope the IC helps.
My lawyer has just issued a stiff ultimatum that W settle accounts rationally or she'll be taken back to court. She's been getting a free ride for almost a year now and its becoming more and more difficult for me so I think its high time she was taken to task on this front. I've avoided talking to her directly about this for at least a month now and would like to keep it that way. But if I meet her next regarding S7 she's going to hit me on this.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread