Your "friends" are telling you the truth. I wouldn't reject "any and all" invitations to family dinners. In fact, this STILL is your family, but you need to not be SO available. Can she get the kids ready in the morning? Is there some reason she can't do it? If she wants you out, show her what it's like to really be OUT... It may be going against the grain of who you are, but it's a decision that SHE made. She WILL respect you for it even if her initial reaction is COMPLETE ANGER.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
